Sunday, December 26, 2010

life is wonderful

words are self-fulfilling prophecy....if you say them repeatedly for enough times, they will probably come true...so, be optimistic and have faith...say all the wonderful and beautiful words like 'i am beautiful' or 'i am extremely lucky' or 'my day will be great!' or 'i am brilliant' and they might well become true ^^

p/s: yes yes this bitch said all the wrong things all the time, so please ignore her when she does so okay?


please help?

i am a conflicted person who would dearly love to listen to gossip...but i have this voice in my head, screaming 'NO, NO, NO, NO, NO 1039482374392002x!!!!!'....coz i know i would not stop at listening...it'll be all-out war for me TT_TT...very personal indeed...


season of sharing ^^

did i ever mentioned how crazily and deeply i loved 2PM?...i did?...i'm sharing one of my favourite songs, so enjoy ^^


2PM - Without You


yes yes, the mv is stereotypical and maybe a bit cheesy, but hey who cares?...i love them and i really love this song...i also really love break-up songs like crazy ^^


Saturday, December 25, 2010

dear diary...

i am extremely busy this holiday season...i have been:

  1. failing my on-the-road driving test...well, i am still a good girl though...i passed my hill, parking and 3-point-turn tests!...yay me!
  2. busy picking a non-existent fight with my illustrious family member behind the said-member's back...i am nothing if not pathetic....
  3. dusting off my textbooks for an upcoming test (one test of lessons i haven't learned as i haven't attended any, i repeat, any, classes)...
  4. scrambling off like a mad-chicken-who-losses-his-head to find something of extreme importance in my life: a direction in life.
  5. getting on my family's nerves by being a loser...

so, dear santa, haven't i been a good girl lately?...don't i deserve great thoughtful gifts under my christmas tree?...


merry christmas everyone! have a joyous celebration!

p/s: i am thinking and missing you guys so much! much love to rachel, joyce, nia, christina, evie, janus, jason, jessie, lirelle, malisha, nicole, rachel mak, sam, savelina, simmi, snow, suki and families...and my friends whose names i didn't mention, not for the lack of thought, but the lack of time ^^ i still love you guys much! keep in touch! and yes, i will reopen my facebook once the time is right ^^

from,
harley

rant number....whatever.

warning: this is a mindless rant whereby i, by the name of harley, will vent my spleen and everything in between. so, be forewarned.


malay, a race full of culture and traditions...we are also a race full of bullshits and wasteful words of wisdoms...one of these bullshits-and-wasteful-words-of-wisdom is 'respect the elders (no matter what provocations)'...i believe the reasoning behind this brilliant words-of-'wisdom' is the fact that elders are elder (age-wise), thus they have vast collections of wisdom through personal experience in life, well as compared to us the youngsters the midgets-in-years-and-experience...


while i believe this is true, to certain extent, and various other cultures also have similar idiom and belief, there is also the 'lesson-not-learned-factor'...let me explain that in details...how many of us have make various mistakes, only to repeat the same offense in future date?...well...there you go...i admit we do learn from our own mistakes but i also like to point out that there are also many mistakes that we keep on repeating without learning from previous experiences...


we are human, we make mistakes and we do make the same mistakes again and again...so...my whole point from this long long long rant is that not every elder is wise...yes, we should all respect everyone, disregarding their age, because well, we live on the same soil, breathe the same air, eat the same food (unless you don't eat) and yada yada yada...respect is mutual...we give them, we also have to earn them back...


this whole case point is dedicated to one of my 'dearest' elderly family member...she (ooopppsss, i gave that one away) is the most annoyingly stupid elderly woman on earth...she doesn't respect my family especially her own son, my father (opppsss, another hint giveth away)...i don't really care about how she never respect my mom and us the children (well i do but we are not important enough in her hierarchy of 'important family members', so, i will strive not to care like my sisters and brother)...but i really care about my baba...he is a loving father who dedicate his time and resources to us, the children...an apt example of fatherly dedication: me...


anyway, she had insulted, demoralized, bad-gossiping, looked-down-upon us the whole family so many times, we all already lost count...one of the things that i will always remember: she will tell to everyone (who may or may not want to know/listen) that she got '2 precious brilliant sons who are great doctors'...what about my father?...what about my father who make time to visit her and take her to breakfast every week? (when her doctor sons usually probably visit her 2 times in 3 months)...what about my father who forced my mother to take care of her when she was in the hospital when she didn't even care about my mother when she gave birth to us or visit my mother when she was hospitalized repeatedly in the past?...what about my father who helped her a lot of times financially when her business was in trouble?...what about my father who...anyway, you get my point...


i simply don't respect her...i never actually respect her...she is not a respectable person...she is not wise aka stupid as she always put her 'doctor sons' on pedestal while disregarding my father who loves and respects her...she always expect us to put her on priority while she never even give us a glance when her rich sons are around...while we are not rich, we love each other (excluding 'her royal snooty highness')...well, i sound bitter but i am bitter...while i managed to forget about her 99% of the times when i was in auckland, i can't exactly ignore her when she is being slapped on my face 24/7 here at home...this is a great example where the idiom 'respect your elders' doesn't actually work for all...this particular elder doesn't deserve respect...


Tuesday, December 21, 2010

the fondler

my brother, the fondler...yes, you read me, the fondler...my brother used to have this habit of fondling the corner of his pillow before before he went to sleep when he was small...it was a weird, almost-perverted, annoying and misunderstood habit of all time...at least, in this family you bet it is!....


he just had to fondle a corner of a pillow for him to be able to settle and sleep...as far as i know, he may probably still have that habit...then again, who am i to know...unless i can spy on him...hmmm...anyway, he got annoyed when his pillow case is the fitted type...you know, the one with no extra lining on the sides so there could be no extra cloth that he can fondle...


ewww....i need to re-word myself....fondle sounds a bit urghh...anyway, my mom and jaja were talking about things and mama was reminiscing about aboy's weird habit...i still remember that he even demanded baba to fondle the corner of his pillow just because he was too tired and falling asleep!!!...yes yes, my family comes from a farway planet called 'PLANET WEIRDNESS'....


Sunday, December 19, 2010

i have nothing important to say (as usual)

we all love to hate...well, at least i do...it's like, when we see someone famous, say justin beiber or taylor swift perhaps, we would make some sort of remark (or at least think) like 'i'm sure he/she is a druggie/drunk/promiscuous/smoke like no tomorrow' or something like that....it's petty jealousy, madam, loud and clear...


we cannot help to be green with envy....what's not to hate?...these celebrities are young, beautiful, rich and famous...they have all the things we think we would love to have...at very least, the bank department is what we would all love to have...


we would also probably be extra judgmental....like when we see some young artists wearing these cute little top, we would make a comment like 'she look fat in that!...she should diet/find another stylist/develop some fashion sense/kill herself'...the truth is, it doesn't matter...all of us, be it a fashion icon or ordinary person will make a mistake fashion-wise one time or another...always...but the most important point is we have to be confidant in the clothes and accessories we are wearing...


i digress...the thing is, we find fault in others...you would be lying if you claim that you are not judgmental...what matters is how to respond to our inner 'judgmentalism'...we can either indulge in bitching that other party (which we will truthfully do once in a while) or shut the hell up and keep it to ourselves (or if you are extra smart, blog/tweet it)...in the end, we all deserve to exercise our freedom of speech and all that *wink wink*


love this!

familiarity breeds contempt...laziness breeds laziness...uhmm...

one thing i noticed about laziness is, it breeds laziness...as in, once you stop being productive aka lazy aka wasting space and oxygen, you tend to become lazy in the future...for example, i used to do a lot of things....sure, a lot of people never notice me and may thought that i did not do anything in high school, but they were wrong...i got a lot of certificates to prove how productive i was in my spare time...well, i might put away one to two hours of sleep after afternoon prep session, but all in all, i managed not to waste tax-payers' money by wasting away doing nothing in high school....


lately, i noticed that i am not so productive...okay, not productive...at all...i don't help mama at housekeeping...i don't help anyone...basically, i laze around watching tv and reading ebooks...i am so totally wasted, urgghh, wasting space and money and anything that a human being essentially need...i wonder if a human can be recharged, like a battery so that this particular human can be active again...and i don't mean by food....or recycled for renewal...or thrown away, like rubbish that i am becoming...well, that's what jaja likes to say anyway...all the time...


right now, at this particular moment, i am thinking to putting together a list...me and my list, i know i know...like, in between being a useless human being, i may be able to do something else, like performing lobotomy on myself perhaps...nah....too much effort...


Saturday, December 18, 2010

2PM

on a happy note, i have turned into a crazed 15-year-old teeny-booper...i fell in love with a k-pop boy band with a vengeance....what time is it now?....it's time for 2PM!!!!!!....I LOVE THEM!!!...LOVE LOVE LOVE THEM!...i don't care!!!...i have become an ultimate stalker but hey, what ever that rocks my boat right????hahaha...check them out ^^

2PM - Heartbeat & Again And Again [Performance]

it's ironic when we go around trying to find what fits us, things that make us happy and fulfilled when sometimes, just sometimes, what we want is just in front of us...along the way we make so many mistakes, some we learned from, most we don't even realize we've committed them...only when we make these particular mistakes over and over again, then we pay attention...


realistically, i made a lot of mistakes...and i will continue to do them... regrettably, in doing these mistakes, they cost me time, money and a lot of regrets...i disappointed a lot of people, particularly my own self...however, in retrospective, i don't want to continue to wallow in regrets that i am completely blinded by the future...


there is a saying, 'look behind, then continue to walk forward'...well, i am going to do that...i will look at my past so far and learn from it...i will continue to carve my own future so i can give back...to my family who has an infinite of patience and faith in me...to the government who gave me second, third and even fourth chances to start over...to my friends who continue to support me in all of my decisions, be them good or bad....


lastly, i want to believe myself again...i want to believe in the future....i want to have faith, blind faith that everything will be alright...i want to put my best two feet forward and put a lot of effort to succeed...i want to have my optimism back...in the end, i just want to want again...it has been so long since i have any semblance of ambition that i became pessimistic and all i did was just going in with the flow...may Allah bless me in my future endeavor...i believe that i have come full circle....


new plan

it has been a while ^^ i feel like i have millions of things to share...however, i seem to have lost any semblance of eloquence...anyway, life has been hectic lately...it has taken another twist and i am determined to follow my new path through with effort and optimism...yes, yes this is vague...i will share more as i go along :)
 
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